How To Get Over Losing Your Best Friend

Hi everyone !

I decided to do a post about losing my best friend because that happened recently (about a year ago...it's recent). I'm not going to reveal her name (because I'm a well mannered human being) and because I've forgotten what her name was  (just kidding..).

I'm going to start by saying that it was quite a hard time and it was probably my fault  to be honest. Mainly because I got super angry and started making her feel even worse about her choice and it was all a very negative experience...

But this isn't the point of my post. Today I'm teaching you on how to get over losing your best friend. Here are my tips :

1. Don't freak out.
This might seem super simple , but it's very important. Freaking out and getting angry (like I did) will get you nowhere. Trust me.

2. Don't start blaming them for it (again , I've done that).
They'll think that you're seeking revenge and it will create unnecessary arguments. Just don't do that.

3. Don't feel sad.
I know this might seem a little bit arrogant,  but if they see you happy,  they'll realise what they missed out on !

4. Get yourself friends that will treat you better.
This is so important , however , don't get yourself friends only to use them as a 'revenge'. Then you'll lose even more friends (you don't want that).

5. Just let them go.
Don't start bullying them because of their choice. Just let them enjoy their miserable life.

As my last point , I'd like to add that although I still feel a little uneasy because I've lost her , that bitch didn't deserve me anyway.

Thanks for reading,
SummerThing x